there's an incredible amount of layers here so allow me to "explain": - in love by 30 means you spent your 20s chasing and found the one. money and health are important but there's still time for that. finding love past 30 gets much harder. - millionaire by 35 with two net worths is doable and sets you up with at least $20M by retirement. - best shape of your life by 40 means you didn't peak in your 20s. too many folks let themselves go after marrying or getting money. good habits here sets you up well for later life. imo this is the ideal life and if you can do this then you've won.