FYI, I broke up with her and she refuses to leave me alone. I’ve blocked her on everything but she keeps messaging me, and calling me on unknown numbers and she refuses to leave my apartment where I regrettably let her stay until she got on her own place (she had no plans to do that). She has been harassing every girl I talk to now and lying saying we still are together when I’ve made it clear I never want to see her again. I’ve moved back to New York now and don’t plan on ever coming back to the Bay until she’s gone.